The Social Media Blues: Don’t Judge A Book By Its Cover I remember a couple of years ago around the holidays I deleted all my social media connections. At this time I was already depressed and after being online for only 15 minutes I was feeling even worse. Viewing all the loving photos from my … Continue reading The Social Media Blues
Things I Had To Realize By 25: This is a lesson that I am continuously learning. As people we are naturally self-centered. It doesn't have to be to the extent of thinking the world revolves around us or anything. But we all have our ways. I had to learn that everyone has their own issues … Continue reading Things I Had To Realize By 25
Rant – Why Do Women Wait For Men? One thing that I have been trying to understand about us women is why do we wait around for men?!? I continuously talk to ladies and hear the same word: wait. The definition of wait is “to stay where one is or delay action until a particular … Continue reading Why Do Women Wait For Men?
Okay ladies, so this is something that has been bothering me for awhile now. I want to touch on this topic in a rant and I'll go into further details in a later post. So anyway as I'm on my social media I keep seeing these memes, and statuses that are so ridiculous and I … Continue reading INVESTING IN YOURSELF: THE COOCHIE STOCK
Why You Always Lyin?? How To Avoid The B.S. In Dating Why do we always try to impress a dude we just met? Why do men act like they are so interested in us, do the most to get our attention, and then ignore us? So let me tell you what I know. Men know … Continue reading Why You Always Lyin?? How To Avoid The B.S. In Dating
Small moments turn into ideas of tall lifetimes. Morning kisses on the shoulder. Degrees heightened by a simple touch from quick hands. I can feel Cool Fingertips running through my scalp. Massaging the immediate stress away. Mediocre strokes the middle of me. When you penetrate. The morning after--is thick syrup stuck between my … Continue reading When You Love a Fuckboy
Day 14 without youMy mind is tired of fighting against the current of loving you...the waves of insanity creeping upon meDrowning me in melancholyMy temple is null of feeling any heighten qualities...nothing makes me shiver or cause butterflies to surge in my abdomenI smile but there's an emptiness folded in the creasesMy eyes dullPassion lukewarmBody … Continue reading Day 14 without you
How You Gon Act Like That?: Get Rid Of Those Negative Thoughts Ladies. It’s time for us to change our way of thinking! I encounter women of different races, sizes, educational levels, etc. who cannot get themselves in order to get to happiness. The reason why so many of US are unhappy is because our … Continue reading How You Gon Act Like That?: Get Rid Of Those Negative Thoughts
Scrolling up and down my social media today I can’t help but to see numerous posts from other lonely young ladies, bashing Valentine’s Day and the couples celebrating it. Status updates expressing that one should show the person they love 365 days of Valentine’s Day. Really? These same individuals are the ones that post hella … Continue reading 5 Reasons Why You’re Single on Valentine’s Day…Again
Forgive Me Not: Self-ForgivenessPhoto Credit: Google ImagesTonight I wanted to talk about self-forgiveness. I know many of us struggle with this, but we have to address it because there is a lot of emotional baggage that we carry that is associated with self-forgiveness. According to Dr. Fred Luskin, the director of The Stanford University Forgiveness … Continue reading Forgive Me Not
Week 3:Sevyn Streeter- B.A.N.SI love this song!! It's called B.A.N.S by Sevyn Streeter. You know her...she sings that song with Chris Brown, "It Don't Stop". This is for those days when your boo getting on your nerves, or you just ready to break up. She is definitely underrated but I love her so you will be hearing other songs … Continue reading Song Of The Week (3)
Midnight & The Sequel: Midnight and the Meaning of Love by Sister SouljahIf you have read “The Coldest Winter Ever”, than you were introduced to the character Midnight. Uhh. I love him! Anyway, the first book introduces a six teen year old teen from the Sudan that is living in Brooklyn trying to deal with … Continue reading More Books To Read!!!!
Forever Was Too Much To Ask ForForever was too long of a time for that chemistry to last.I can recall when your brown skin energized and radiated my sense to be comfortable. Comfortably me.But you fooled me. Because that time has changedNow you judge me from my past. On things.That you can't even imagine I’ve … Continue reading Poem: Forever Was Too Much To Ask For
Pregnancy & Education: Tips and Experiences Photo Credit: Google ImagesI want to share information on how to get through school when you are pregnant, but this information is really universal for all women attending school.First things first. Don't be embarrassed. Being pregnant is not something to be embarrassed or ashamed about. When you come in the room … Continue reading Pregnancy & Education: My Experience and Tips
Lovers &Friends Pt.3 Having Friends Of The Opposite Sex While You’re In A RelationshipIs it cool to have friends of the opposite sex while you’re in a serious relationship?Photo Credit: Google ImagesI don't see the point of being in a serious relationship and having friends of the opposite sex that aren't apart of the life … Continue reading Lovers &Friends Pt. 3 Having Friends Of The Opposite Sex While In A Serious Relationship